5. Reassurance
Reassurance is a must. You have to make your child see and realize that all his friends- male and female peers will be experiencing the same; only that some hit puberty at an earlier age and some at a later age.
6. The Bigger Picture- The Birds and Bees
Now comes the most difficult part. You need to explain why the changes occur in the first place. Many children are already aware of the birds and bees; they’ve probably picked it up from friends. Inform them that puberty will eventually prepare them for reproduction. Speak to them about how babies are created – the whole sex issue- at a level that is intelligible to them. You could speak to a counselor or a pediatrician about what would be the best way to explain it to them.
7. Invite questions
Once you’ve done talking, ask your child if they have any questions on the topic. If your child voluntarily comes up with questions, respect them and answer their questions in the best manner you can. This is important because it opens channels of communication. In future too, if your child has certain concerns or questions, he or she won’t hesitate to ask you.
